Master The Art Of Erotic Spanking

On my last visit to The Howard Stern Show, Howard thought to "punish" me by putting me in his "Robo-spanker." This fiendish machine consists of a padded bench on which the victim kneels with her bottom projecting in the air, while a big wooden paddle whacks her behind.

 

Although Howard thought he was "putting me to the torture" to make me "talk" about my relationship with JFK Jr., what he was really doing was turning me on! Howard was incredulous. "You like that?" he asked. "Well, I really prefer a hand spanking," I said, "but this is not bad!"

for the love of spanking

Yes, spanking can be sexy, and a majority of women have fantasies about being spanked. Most men, too, find spanking a woman to be a strong sexual turn-on.

 

But sexual spanking is not the same as the punishment spanking we may have experienced as children.

For a woman, the turn-on is not so much in the sensation of pain as it is in the feeling of helpless submission and vulnerability of being bent over her partner's lap, the attention being paid to her behind (a primary erotic zone), the feeling of a man's hand warming her buttocks, and the anticipation of sexual pleasures to come.

For a man, the arousing aspect of spanking is the feeling of control and power over his helpless lover, and the excitement of playing with her attractive bottom, turning it pink and putting her in the mood for some hot, passionate sex.